Angela Becek Angela Becek

Trust and Obey: Toxic Christianity

Today, we will explore the dark side of stage 3 faith (synthetic-conventional stage).


In Healthy Church Christianity (stage 3), people grow. They discover that something they once believed was incomplete and they take in new information, adapt their thinking, and turn and go in a new direction. If their old views caused harm, they make apologies.

This is repentance. This was the message of Jesus, and the Law and the Prophets before him. It is to live a life of mercy, humility, and justice. It is rooted in love.

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Angela Becek Angela Becek

They Came in By Twosies, Twosies

Our relationship with the Bible and with our faith should be the same. We’re not supposed to leave these stories in our 8 year-old brains; they’re supposed to grow with us.


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You’re Not Deconstructing, You’re Growing

Part One: Introduction

I just finished listening to Rachel Held Evans read her audiobook, A Year of Biblical Womanhood and I wept.

It was through those stories that I was introduced to Rachel - can I call her Rachel? - when she spoke at the VAUMC Fall Youth Retreat in 2012. She taught me that it’s okay to grow in our faith and the importance in helping others grow, too.

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Part Three: The Church was Never Meant to Conquer Civilization

Last week, I referenced a speech given by Vice President Vance in which he talked about the need to defend a “certain” Christian civilization (see Part Two), I suspect he did not mean a civilization built on the teachings of Christ.

If the Christian Nationalist movement is interested in Christian civilization, perhaps we should look at what the oldest Christian communities were like.

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Angela Becek Angela Becek

Part Two: A Certain Christian Civilization

Several weeks ago, the Vice President of the United States went to Hungary to praise the authoritarian regime of Viktor Orban as the “the defense of Western civilization,” and “the defense of the idea that we are founded on a certain Christian civilization and Christian values that animate everything…” (CBS News)

When I heard this, everything clicked. 

“…a certain Christian civilization…” 

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Angela Becek Angela Becek

Biblical Idolatry and the Plot to Destroy American Democracy

I pledge allegiance to the Bible,

God’s Holy Word.

I will make it a lamp unto my feet,

and a light unto my path,

and will hide its words

in my heart that I might

not sin against God.


I had never heard of this “Pledge to the Bible” until I taught in a Christian school in the 90s. I found it odd, but didn’t really question it.

I grew up with the Apostle’s Creed, which goes like this:


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